Take a Deep Breath
I’m sure you have some preconceptions about the sort of woman that I am. People often do. Perhaps you believe that I’m intimidating, a femme fatale, a force of nature you might spend months or years plucking up the courage to meet. A bitch. An angel. A tease. A goddess.
I’m of the belief that our instinctive preconceptions of others are often the key to understanding our deepest selves. Fears and anxieties are, in fact, often fantasies in disguise. Perhaps you’re nervous right now, summoning those preconceptions even as you read these words.
Before we go any further, let’s get one thing straight.
I am so much more complex than anything you’ve imagined.
To really know this you will, of course, have to present yourself before me, in the flesh. A few short paragraphs are not enough to convey the truth of someone like me. But by way of an introduction, here are some things you ought to know. I believe desire can only ever be fully experienced through being totally present with another.
Most of us spend a lifetime striving for deferred pleasures, waiting for the real excitement to begin. Some waste time reliving the past. But me? I know that all we ever really have is the here-and-now. To me, what’s happening in this exact moment is the only thing that truly counts.
I expect the kinds of experiences that can only be built through courage and vulnerability
I’m not interested in the face you show to the rest of the world. I’m interested in the self you keep locked away, the noises you hold inside yourself, afraid of being heard. True submission will require you to be emotionally, intellectually and sexually honest, as I will be with you. And not everyone is capable of that.
I believe that things of the highest value like art, laughter, and sex, are forms of ephemera that are impossible to measure or define. They slip out of our analytical mind’s grasp like bubbles, shadows, dew, and lightning.
I see BDSM as a form of art that we create together and myself as an artist-curator who deals with themes of power, bliss, subjugation, pain, vulnerability and persona. My practice as a practitioner is an artform. Sessions with me are unique erotic encounters that draw on over ten years of dedication to honing my craft. I am, by nature, sexually dominant, but kink is not just who I am; It’s what I do, and I do it with skill, passion and intuition.
Don’t get me confused with hollow Netflix depictions of two-dimensional, pantomime sadism. Rather, I begin from a place of heart-to-mind honesty, building scenes in the space where our desires meet.
Despite what I choose to display in my words and images, I am far more playful than you can imagine. I believe in kindness and have a deeply held ethic of care towards my play partners, including a commitment to investigating what they truly need, before, during and after our play. Whilst these are qualities that extend from my spiritual and philosophical values, I also believe we owe it to ourselves and one another to spend time exploring the shadows. I have a sharp and critical mind, and I prefer honesty over fawning on people. I am ruthlessly selective about taking on new clients, but that shouldn’t put you off trying.
That’s enough for now. For the dedicated, you can discover more about my practice here.
OFFERINGS
Sensual Domination
Corporal Punishment / Impact Play
Humiliation
Threesomes & Couples Coaching
Double Domme / Group Play
Roleplaying
Fetish
Strap-On & Anal Play
Gender & Sexuality Play
Tickling
Orgasm Control & Edging
Sex Toys
Watersports
Sadism & Masochism
Sensory Deprivation
Bondage
Servitude
Worship
Consensual Non Consent
GFE, Overnights & Travel
Coaching + Education
