Come Closer
If you’re reading this, you’ve started to get invested in the idea of meeting me. This page will tell you everything you need to know.
We meet in a specially designed BDSM space in Central London, or a private residential apartment in West London. I’m also more than happy to meet in your hotel if it’s spacious and luxurious. Once we are acquainted, we might also meet out and about, in cafes, shopping trips, or art galleries. I enjoy spending social time with my submissives as I don’t see a clear cut dividing line between the sexual and social realms we find ourselves in. Power exchange can happen anywhere. Wherever you are imagining us connecting, let me know.
Setting The Scene
I am based in London and frequently travel to Europe and further afield. I take sessions in other cities if we are there are the same time, and if not then you may invite me to join you where you are. (In industry parlance this is known as a ‘Fly Me To You’ and generally is a longer encounter of 48 hours or more.) Extended and overnight sessions are also available here in my home city if you are excited by the prospect of an immersive and intimate domination experience, although if we haven’t met, I will only meet you at a hotel, rather than at your home.
Travel and Extended Sessions
I have high expectations of my clients and I filter out low quality enquiries assiduously, with the help of my assistant M. Make sure your message is seen by me by taking the time to read e v e r y t h i n g on this site at least twice, appreciating the effort I’ve taken in telling you about me, before returning the favour and telling me about you. You’ll notice a certain prompt on my application to verify that you’ve read my site thoroughly and that prompt is “Alpha” - well done you. I appreciate thoughtful self reflection and open hearted honesty in your application, but also the self awareness not to give excess information that I haven’t asked for.
Getting In Touch
Screening + Deposits
I screen new clients via hotel reservation details and room number (for outcall sessions), or via employment verification or references from other providers. The moment I commit to meeting with you is the moment my assistant declines other invitations for me, whether for more work or personal life commitments. As such, I take deposits to protect my time from nuisance bookings. You may cancel up to 72 hours in advance of our session and the deposit can be used to rebook another session. For cancellations that arrive within 72-24 hours, I will retain the deposit but you are welcome to re-book any time. Cancellation on the same day will incur the full fee in the form of an invoice and I will pursue non-payment through legal avenues, as well as permanently blacklist non-paying clients.
FAQ’s
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It doesn’t matter to me if it’s your first time or your fiftieth time. Beyond the obligatory scrutiny of these pages on my site and adherence to the etiquette contained therein, there is no right or wrong way to experience your own embodied pleasure. Just show up, be present, and let go of your preconceptions. If you are nervous, feel the fear and do it anyway. Discomfort is the price of admission to any life experience worth having.
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My minimum session time is 3 hours. I absolutely can cater to a shorter booking request, unless by shorter you mean less expensive, in which case…. no. You may book the minimum 3 hours and leave after 10 minutes, if feeling short-changed and exploited is a turn on for you (and that’s perfectly reasonable if so) However, please know that being short changed and exploited is a turn off for me, so never try to renegotiate my stated preferences and boundaries with me.
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Certainly - the conditions for your ultimate pleasure are taken closely into consideration, including desired items of clothing. Nothing, however, is promised. Costs associated with getting hold of certain items will be passed on to you.
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It is a truth universally acknowledged that true service subs are incredibly rare. It’s extremely unlikely you have a fantasy of true servitude (most people are interested in service-oriented play sessions instead), but if you do, book a regular session first, and lets discuss it then. In my opinion, Sir Claire Black says its better than I ever could in this piece.
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Yes, see my Friends page to learn more about who I like to session with, and who I am happy to introduce you to. I’m open to playing with other reputable pro-Dommes if you have already played with them. At least two out of the three parties present should be previously acquainted, in my experience.
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If you would ordinarily tip people as a way of showing appreciation for their creative or caring work, then yes, tips are a pretty great way to foster a good relationship between us. This is particularly true for sessions where I might have gone to some effort that is classed as ‘above and beyond’ to cater to your needs, such as arranging special attire, itineraries or playlists. However, you may also wish to show your appreciation in other ways, including but not limited to gifts & vouchers, a beautiful thankyou email, impeccable personal hygiene, immaculate behaviour in sessions, inventive and exciting plans for further sessions, bringing homemade vegan cake...you get the idea.
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I don’t judge, but I insist that you don’t book a first time session with me if you intend to use cocaine or other uppers. I'm easygoing about the use of select other substances if you'd like to involve them, especially if they will enhance your experience, but please discuss with me first, and please know your own limits.
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Uh oh! I sincerely hope you didn’t fall prey to a scammer. There’s little I can do before I am informed of impersonators, and it tends to be par for the course when you put high quality images out onto the internet. I recommend reading An Li’s post on this issue if you’d like to stay vigilant for both our sakes. Please inform me so I can attempt to have impersonators removed.
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Yes, please feel free to cite me as a reference if we’ve seen each other within the last 12 months.
